Not possible makes things impossible

We had a horde of visitors in the last month. What surprised me the most was the "advice" or whatever told by most of the persons.. "Philosophy லாம் என்னானாலும் சொல்லலாமே தவிர நடைமுறைக்கு ஒத்து வராது and that time is the only healer". Yeah the 2nd part is acceptable but considering the first part, if so then why all the philosophies etc etc. Vaippaechukku matum naal edukku ada terinjukkanum? And the point is no normal person ie ordinary person advocates practising those so called philosophies. and hence when we say NOT POSSIBLE, WE MAKE IT IMPOSSIBLE.